Still, this shouldn’t mean that we can’t find some common ground and a way to be with one-another that’s more satisfying for all concerned. Men and women, although equal in intelligence and abilities, nevertheless think differently, want somewhat different things and approach relationships differently. The anger and disillusionment women feel, and the confusion and illusions men are struggling with have created a situation today in which we’re more like adversaries, warily circling each-other, seeking an advantage, rather than sincerely trying to get to know one-another and make a real connection. The advent of feminism, while improving things to some degree for women with regard to social justice, financial independence and career advancement, hasn’t really helped either sex when it comes to dating, because it hasn’t offered an alternate template. It’s not surprising why so many people are frustrated, disappointed and infuriated by their recent adventures in dating, but I think that there might be a way for men and women to find some common ground and have more success in forging meaningful bonds.Įver since the traditional male-female roles were thrown out, men and women have been trying to figure out how to be around each-other. Instead of looking for a way to come together and enjoy each-other, men and women are often more determined to misuse each-other these days. Neither side really understands what the other wants, and I’ve even noticed an undercurrent of contempt running in both directions. Sadly, men and women seem to be further apart than ever. Maybe it’s because spring is coming, but lately, I’ve been hearing a lot of dating stories.
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